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Tuesday, August 08, 2006

Guys .. get married if you can!

Al Salamu 3alaykom wa ra7mat Allah wabarakatoh ..

Marriage is a great thing to be achieved, especially these days when all Fetan are spreading. I am talking as a guy and what are the difficulties that face single guys and what fetan might guys suffer from.

Even when we are driving our cars through the city, we see all kind of women that half of their bodies are shouting; they barely cover few parts from their bodies. Subhan Allah, men wear clothes more than them.

May Allah help these guys who don’t want to fall in HARAM because of their good and strong Iman, and may Allah help them with marriage, especially that most of people are asking for unbelievable dowries, I am sure there are some people who don’t care about that and they just look for the man himself who can save their daughter. One of my friend’s friends, Allah granted him a wife from a very kind family, the girl’s father took the responsibility of everything when he knew that the man can’t afford everything for getting married to the girl, and he is a very good person MashaAllah.

Marriage is not a simple word, it means a big duty but it saves both man and woman from sinning and it’s sunnat alrasool Sallah Allahu alayh wa salam, I was told once that Sheikh Abdulaziz Bin Baz was asked by a man who had enough money either for going to HAJ or for getting married, and the Sheikh preferred marriage, Subhan Allah.

قال النبي صلى الله عليه وسلم : يا معشر الشباب من استطاع منكم الباءة فليتزوج فإنه أغض
للبصر وأحصن للفرج ومن لم يستطع فعليه بالصوم فإنه له وجاء
متفق على صحته .

Read this fatwa for Sheikh Bin Baz >> click here <<

الحمد لله رب العالمين

11 Comments:

At 11:23 AM, Anonymous candle of hope said...

wa alaikoum al sallam wa rahmat Allah wa barakatuh...

I believe that not only men have hard time.. but so do women..

cos women look for love, tender and care and cos of the fact that they have no husbands they tend to sin and anger Allah by having boy friends instead..

May Allah grant us patience..

I am against huge wedding parties, sky high dowry and many many many golds... etc

cos marriage is about commitment.. completing your deen.. raising muslim children.. and not about how much you spend on your wedding dress..
people do such things in order to satisfy ppl.. so that ppl would say bint flan sawat che..
but .. there's this fact.. that no matter what we do.. ppl NEVER get satisfied..

instead of spending money on useless things.. we can use that money for charity..
alot of ppl need just one bread to keep them alive.. while we waste our money on ashya tafha..

Allah yihdee il jamee3..

[ i think ana shway 6ila3t min il maw'6oo3.. ]

 
At 11:28 AM, Blogger numb said...

candle of hope,

you are right, but I talked about Men cuz I am one of them and I face the same trouble.

Of course that women need it too, it is not only from men's side.

Dont worry, what you talked about is related to the topic somehow :) ..

Barak allah feekom ..

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At 11:33 AM, Anonymous candle of hope said...

sorry brother lakin i can't read what you wrote after "Barak allah feekom .."

'6ihratlee lu'3a '3areebah

 
At 11:36 AM, Blogger numb said...

It was Du3aa' .. :)

Allah yerzegna bel zojah el 9ale7ah o yerzegkom bel zoj el 5ayyer wel 9aale7

 
At 11:37 AM, Anonymous candle of hope said...

Allahouma ameen..
o yirzigna bil thireeyeh il 9al7eh

 
At 12:30 PM, Anonymous Ms. Rosie said...

Wa3alikom essalam wa ra7matu Allah wa barakatuh...
Nice topic!
Barak Allah feek brother...

 
At 1:13 PM, Blogger numb said...

ms.rosie ..

Thanks .. wa feekom barak

 
At 7:59 AM, Blogger comity said...

i feel bad for men now a days. like the debt they put them selves into just to marry a wife. i think some parents reason that if you let the man pay his heart out on there daughter, the man will feel to attached to the women and doesnt want to ruin the relationship cus he invested soo much into it ( money wise) . but dont they think this will leave unnecessary grugdes between the spouses? allah kareem
and some women have unattainable requests ib9ara7a, like she wants to not only be treated like a queen ( which is ok) but spend money like a queen too :P.
allah kareem
3ala kil 7al, allah yarzigna ilazwaj il9al7aa
w/salam wara7mato allah wabarakato

 
At 12:35 PM, Blogger numb said...

comity ..

Well, money wise you were talking about, might affect badly on them, you know why ! because the man will pay everything he had and got from loans for the wedding and dowry, then what ! he will keep on paying his debts and will not be able to afford what his wife needs, actually she had evrything she wanted for wedding and unnecessary things.

 
At 8:31 PM, Blogger DXB_Muslim said...

*sob*
It makes you weep doesn't it?
Really going outside sometimes makes me want to cry :S

Allah yirziqna el zawja el 9ali7aa yaaa rab !

 
At 11:34 AM, Blogger numb said...

dxb muslim ..


Hala brother, yes it does ..Allah el musta3aan ..

Barak Allah feek

 

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